Me, I love a good dichotomy. It’s when I’m surest of all, that I’ve likely stumbled on something useful. I think of a dichotomy as a kind of mind-bending contradiction; a higher order of contradiction that involves points of particular value.
In the pursuit of our Vision and Purpose, we will especially find early on in that process, that the worst of all of our negative thoughts arise with more vigour than ever before. There eventually comes a time when all such obstacles fade and drop like flies in the increasing clarity and robustness of your Vision and Purpose. In the meantime, a range of seeming obstacles like to either test our grit, or else our own increasing positivity gives them an unpleasant airing as it forces them out.
And therein lies one very obvious contradiction… we seek clarity and en route we can find the worst of mental and emotional crisis and doubt. Here then is one great Truth: that in the pursuit of Vision we must first pass through Chaos.
Here’s some definitions:
Dilemma = a situation in which a difficult choice has to be made between two or more alternatives, especially ones that are equally undesirable: eg. he wants to make money, but he also disapproves of it.
Contradiction = a combination of statements, ideas, or features which are opposed to one another.
Dichotomy = a division or contrast between two things that are (or are represented as being) opposed or entirely different: eg. a rigid dichotomy between science and mysticism
Oh there’s such a list of them…
We’re not taught in our logical world to understand the great value of dichotomy, the reality of contradiction, or how to respond well to dilemmas (not to mention the special joy of irony, much loved by Brits and Kiwis in their particular brands of humour, but that’s for another day).
In the search for Truth, Light, Vision, Purpose, Meaning, Answers… a choice between black or white tends often to create more problems than it solves. I vote for grey. I vote for contradiction. Therein lies openness, and therein lies the most direct route for the Universe to aid us in achieving our Vision. To allow ourselves to feel ‘stuck’ by dichotomy, or forced to choose one of two or more seemingly opposing ideas, we block the naturally paradoxical Universe itself from supporting us.
There are many, many examples of this contradictory world, society, life… Not everything needs to be solved. Not everything needs to make sense. And I hope that makes sense.
This article was written by tryinggodspatience